Reconnecting with Your Estranged Adult Child — Tina Gilbertson
Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2026 5:20 pm
Reconnecting with Your Estranged Adult Child: Practical Tips and Tools to Heal Your Relationship
Tina Gilbertson — 2020
Counsellor Tina Gilbertson writes specifically for parents whose adult children have withdrawn or cut off contact.
The book looks at how estrangement can develop, what parents can realistically do to improve the chances of repair, and how communication, validation, boundaries and self-reflection may affect attempts at reconciliation.
Gilbertson’s approach is supportive of parents, but she also encourages them to consider how the relationship may look from the adult child’s perspective.
Why we’ve included it:
This is one of the more substantial practical books written specifically for estranged parents. It combines emotional support with an emphasis on reflection and constructive communication rather than simply assigning blame.
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Tina Gilbertson — 2020
Counsellor Tina Gilbertson writes specifically for parents whose adult children have withdrawn or cut off contact.
The book looks at how estrangement can develop, what parents can realistically do to improve the chances of repair, and how communication, validation, boundaries and self-reflection may affect attempts at reconciliation.
Gilbertson’s approach is supportive of parents, but she also encourages them to consider how the relationship may look from the adult child’s perspective.
Why we’ve included it:
This is one of the more substantial practical books written specifically for estranged parents. It combines emotional support with an emphasis on reflection and constructive communication rather than simply assigning blame.
Buy the book
Reconnecting with Your Estranged Adult Child — Bookshop.org
Affiliate link: if you buy through this link, Estranged Parents may receive a commission at no additional cost to you. Bookshop.org also supports independent bookshops.
Inclusion in our library means we believe this item may be useful or thought-provoking. It does not mean Estranged Parents endorses every opinion or conclusion expressed.